I was looking for something with girth, and, boy, I got it! I didn t realize just how big this big boy was going to be! Definitely not for a first timer, and you will definitely need lube. The suction base works quite well on a flat base sticking up, but he s heavy, so using him horizontally is a little more challenging. After taking him for a test ride, it s nice to know that, after giving birth to two large babies, I m still tight af.