I ordered this for a male friend who's into pegging. I read all the reviews about this dildo and all of them said how huge it was. BELIEVE THE REVIEWS! IT'S HUGE! Definitely not for first timers or people who are not into bigger sized dildos or being stretched. Trust me, if you have a small- average size clit, you're not going to fit this. I have a large clit and I can't even fit this. I was able to get the top head in, but that's it. Maybe like a 1/4 inch worth. The part I got to feel felt great, but i wanted to feel more. This will def fill you up and please you. I only wish I could have had such pleasure when it arrived, but this is one you will need to work up to if you're new to such sizes.
I've always been a fan of length, but it's the thickness that gets me. This is about 2 1/2 - 3 inches thick. It is wider than the playing card they put up in the ad. It's also got some weight to it. My friend thinks it could be used as a weapon, lol. probaly, lol. you'll know it when you feel it and lift it. I wasn't sure if it would even stay strapped on to my harness because of how huge it is, but it does. I didn't think i was going to be able to push this from a strap on position due to the weight, but it's not that bad really. I'm used to small 8 inches, so i'm used to way less weight, but can't say I don't like wearing this one. It looks so real - it's my first Doc Johnson, and I will be buying more from this brand. I def love the quality.
But this thing is HUGE. It's a monster. If that's your thing, then buy it. If you're new to big sized dildo's, you may want to work yourself up to this before you try it.