I am new to anal play. Got this a week ago and it finally popped in tonight, what an amazing experience. It's super smooth when playing, and better than anything you can improvise with. Can't wait for tomorrow night, not sure if I can do two nights in a row - it's really a mind game, getting into the right state to let it in. IMO if you are pushing hard you are doing it wrong, just go slow, relax, and enjoy the trip. Just amazing!!!