This is a very firm dildo. I bought this because I wanted a small dildo with and this one will also stimulate the G-Spot.I personally prefer to use more as a vaginal plug while I use a pulsator, instead of thrusting it. But to each their own. There s not a lot of room for a pulsator because of the suction cup, which works, but I can make it work. If you re looking for your first dildo, for a low price, that also has a G-Spot bump , I definitely recommend it. I am very happy I bought mine.