After leaving a very long term relationship with a man who was as inexperienced in sex as I was when we married, I discovered that I was really quite uneducated in the wonders of sex. My friends took me under their wing and shared with me the wild world that is sex toys. While blushing the entire time, I bought a visa gift card and placed an order for a wide variety of toys. My package arrived and I unpacked my new treasures. The first toy I picked up was a 30 minute clit sucker. In my naivete, I thought it meant that it'd take me 30 minutes to reach orgasm. I hit orgasm in seconds (ok Mr Ex, it wasn't ME!!!) and discovered the toy only lasts for 30 minutes. After the bravery it took me to purchase it in the first place, that was a severe let down. None of the other toys in my pleasure package, well, pleased like the clit sucker did. I don't smoke but that little thing had me asking for a smoke! It took me a month to work up the courage to repeat the process - I live, after a