my partner & I, were having trouble to get me to having an orgasm. ended up getting the small packet of this to try not thinking much of it, we decided to use it and WOW... it helped me have an orgasm during oral that i didn t think was possible!!! we quickly decided to buy the bigger size, and use it during all foreplay & sex. the cooling effects make your partner s tongue feel that much warmer against you, HIGHLY recommend for women struggling to orgasm.