The concept of this toy gets 5 stars, but the actual product only gets 3...hence, averaged to my review total of 4 stars. Reasons I like it: 1) it is large enough to actually fit in your hand. I like the bulk of the tapered opening following down the girthy shaft. 2) The entry has a ring of tension that hugs your penis and creates a kind of built-in cock-ring. 3) The material is soft and supple. NOW, what I don't like about it: A) It is fragile! I use a water-based TokoAqua lube to be as careful as possible, yet, The Honcho has torn in 3 places at the entry. I have resorted to placing a large rubberband around the outside of the tapered end to provide the constriction I used to enjoy when the product was new. B) The bumps and ridges inside are very soft and too subtle - just a bit more "solid" feel, or more rigid bumps, would be more to my liking.
All-in-all, I love it and I make it work for me. So far, it is the best 'mate' I have found. I remain single and have little chance of a real human sexual partner, so I am happy to have found something I can turn to in those moments of 'need'.