First let's start by saying my husband and I are pleasantly plump, and we decided to try new things! The sex sling looked a bit intimidating at first and I wasn't sure if it would be comfortable for someone my size. Well, after having only used it once so far I have to say all my fears are gone! The straps are amazingly wide and stronger than you would ever expect, the seat is surprisingly comfy, and it holds my weight very well! The only thing I wish was different was if the handles were adjustable like everything else. I highly recommend this swing to anyone wanting to spice things up!