I was surprised at the feeling this little plug generates. I am new at butt plugs so didn t know what to expect. This is very soft, not too large for a beginner, but took a little lube to get it in. It is so flexible, it is hard to guide in sometimes, but once it is inside, it is smooth and comfortable, feels nice, and stays put. I wore it around the house and it wasn t bad. The outside is shaped to blend with your bottom and not protrude or cause any problems when you sit on it. Very nice all in all and i would like to see one of these a little larger with vibration. I d buy again. Small enough for beginners, large enough bulb to stay put.