Bought this as a toy to share with my spouse, we have used it so far both as a standard dildo for her (the suction base works nicely for handsfree action), and we've recently paired it with a strap-on belt for her to do me (I'm male) and I gotta say the fit and size is perfect, even for anal. Large enough to satisfy both of us but not too big either. I definitely recommend it, it's a well-rounded toy for just about any use.