this is so realistic! its squishy, but firm. and the whole in the back is a good place to put a small vibrator so you can add even more fun! the color job is very good, it can even pass as the real thing! the balls are soft when you mess with them, but very very firm. i dont have a vac u lock or a harness but it is fantastic with out it! i recommend this to anyone who is a beginner or those who just wants an easy time with a cock. definitely a keeper!