I was contemplating which ball gag to buy and ended up settling for this. I wasn't too sure what I might like or dislike in a ball gag as I've never had one, but it seems like this one would be a good starter for anyone. The size isn't too big so it should fit anyone, the strap works well and the ball is soft enough to bite on. It's also a lot redder than it looks in the picture. However, if you have a lot of jaw range as I do you may want to look for something a bit bigger, this one leaves me with quite a bit of free space still in my mouth.