My gf likes to be really stretched out and frankly, I love being able to give that to her. We have a few larger toys, but this one is just perfect. Its girth is perfect--but not to big. She can't take all of its length (yet) but she's close. It feels very real, too! Only two drawbacks, really: 1. It smells like coconuts. Not sure if that's by design or just a byproduct of the material used, but when stored in my closet, my closet smells like coconuts. 2. The material is very "sticky." This means that hairs will stick to the toy quite readily.