The first time I opened the package my mouth began to water, my nipples started tingling and I was almost immediately wet and I could not get undressed quickly enough. The moment it first slides in is extasy, I love the size, it could have been a tad bigger but I can deal with it. I used it in conjunction with a clitoral sucker/vibrator and spent the next hour and a half in heaven and I had a grand cum at the end of that session, clitoral and G spot both. There is definitely a reason they call it a deep stroker. While I am using it, it just gradually goes deeper and deeper with each thrust as I relax until it is almost all the way in up to the handle. When I was done with the vaginal play I tried it anally just to see how it would feel.