My bf loves this plug. It's bigger and heavier than his other one, and it does take lots of lube, patience, and work to get it in. He says it feels amazing, and he's not worried about it coming out when we have sex. The pressure on his prostate, and the overall stretch sensation keep him really hard all the way through our sessions. He can't "forget" that it's in there, it definitely reminds him the whole time it's in. We recommend this plug for sure!